Hi, I'm Woon and I have stage 2 prostate cancer.
Some time back, I noticed that I was urinating more often than usual. After a blood test showed that there were high levels of prostate specific antigen (PSA) in my blood, I was referred to a hospital and formally diagnosed with stage 2 prostate cancer. This news overwhelmed me with feelings of fear and sadness.
While I was initially recommended a prostatectomy, radiation therapy and hormonal therapy, I eventually opted for a radical prostatectomy on top of the non-surgical treatments.
The journey with prostate cancer began less than a year ago. I found it strange that I was urinating frequently, especially at night. During a blood test, it was discovered that there were high levels of prostate specific antigen (PSA) in my blood and I was then referred to a hospital. Eventually, doctors diagnosed me with stage 2 prostate cancer.
When I was first diagnosed with prostate cancer, I was overwhelmed with feelings of fear and sadness. I felt inferior, isolated and vulnerable, on top of a sense of worthlessness.
Some lifestyle adjustments I made after my diagnosis revolved around my alcohol intake, nutrition and diet, and smoking habits. I cut down on the number of drinks and cigarettes I had each week and ate healthier more regularly.
Initial Surgery Plan:
- Prostatectomy — Removal of partial prostate gland
Eventual Surgery Plan:
- Radical Prostatectomy — Removal of entire prostate gland
Non-surgical treatment:
- Radiation therapy
- Hormonal therapy
Transitioning through different hospitals marked a significant phase in my cancer treatment journey. Initially, I received care at one hospital, but currently, I'm under the supervision of doctors at another hospital. I was initially recommended a prostatectomy, radiation therapy and hormonal therapy. However, after doing my own research and considering my doctor's recommendations, on top of the non-surgical treatments, my current treatment plan involves a radical prostatectomy instead. I also opted for alternative treatment in the form of traditional Chinese medicine (TCM).
Reflecting on my emotional state following the change in treatment plan, I experienced a mixture of feelings. I felt more anxious, discouraged and scared.
The path of cancer treatment is fraught with its share of obstacles, and I have not been immune to the side effects that accompany it. Fatigue, nausea and vomiting, and peripheral neuropathy have been the most pronounced challenges I've faced during this journey.
Managing these side effects has required a multifaceted approach of improved nutrition and prescribed medication.
Since starting my cancer treatment, there have been some permanent changes in my lifestyle.
In terms of my nutrition and diet, I prioritize eating a healthier diet every day of the week. I also continue to cut down on how often I smoke and drink.
Looking ahead, my plans for the next couple of years revolve around my family and myself. For my family, I aim to retire early due to the impact of cancer and to spend more time taking care of my grandchildren. Family has always been my priority, especially now that we spend more time together since my cancer diagnosis.
As for myself, I am still in the process of therapy, so I haven't solidified any plans yet.
My biggest dream is to retire and live a life free from the worries of cancer. Equally important are my dreams with my loved ones. I long to spend more time together, creating lasting memories and strengthening the bonds that hold us together.
My biggest fear throughout my journey to recovery was the fear of others discovering that I had prostate cancer. Because of this fear, I don't talk about my condition with my friends. I prefer keeping my cancer diagnosis within my close family members.
It's been awhile since I was first diagnosed, but my feelings remain the same. I'm still fearful, sad, isolated and vulnerable.
Honestly, I am pretty embarrassed by my condition (the fact that I have cancer) and I don't want friends to know about my diagnosis. But if my story can help other people going through a similar experience, then it's worth it. Remember, we are not alone in this journey.
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